by Violet | Jul 23, 2013 | controlling a fetish
The Question Do you think that a man can control his fetishes for a long time; or maybe that he can change them? Sonar My Answer Hello Sonar. Thank you for writing to me with your question about controlling your fetish. This is a topic that comes up during my calls...
by Violet | Jan 1, 2013 | gooning
The Letter Dear Empress Violet, At what point does “edging” and “riding the edge” and even a “hard ridge of the edge” step over the line and become “gooning”? Could you please address the topic of “gooning”? I have been known to edge for prolonged periods of time...
by Violet | Oct 6, 2012 | cock control, fetish advice, kinky advice, ruined orgasm
The Letter It has been about six weeks since I had a real orgasm. But two recent experiences led me to a question for you. Last week I was giving my wife oral (which I love to do of course!) and as she reached her climax I realized that I was throbbing and...
by Violet | Jun 14, 2012 | chastity, edging, kinky advice, kinky games
The Letter The last time I masturbated was 6 months ago. I remember it was possible to do it pretty quick. So it makes logical sense that the best thing to do for fun is to edge. But I wonder, is it really possible to edge yourself? toy My Answer Absolutely, edging...
by Violet | Jun 3, 2012 | edging, kinky relationship advice, orgasm denial, tease and denial
The Letter Hello Ms. Violet, So my wife wants to start locking up my penis in chastity. Of course I am thrilled! But, in secret, I also enjoy calling certain LDW Mistresses. I’m worried that, since my cock will be locked up, I won’t be able to perform...
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