Controlling Your Fetish

The Question Do you think that a man can control his fetishes for a long time; or maybe that he can change them? Sonar My Answer Hello Sonar.  Thank you for writing to me with your question about controlling your fetish.  This is a topic that comes up during my calls...

Achieving Gooning

The Letter Dear Empress Violet, At what point does “edging” and “riding the edge” and even a “hard ridge of the edge” step over the line and become “gooning”?  Could you please address the topic of “gooning”?   I have been known to edge for prolonged periods of time...

Steps For Edging Yourself

The Letter The last time I masturbated was 6 months ago.  I remember it was possible to do it pretty quick.  So it makes logical sense that the best thing to do for fun is to edge.  But I wonder, is it really possible to edge yourself? toy My Answer Absolutely, edging...