by Violet | Jun 24, 2016 | submissive etiquette
The Letter Mistress, i was wondering what is acceptable action by a submissive in those areas that someone is not usually supposed to act submissive? Especially in a situation like when a lady is definitely your Domme but she also has a “Dom”. In fact, he...
by Violet | May 28, 2016 | seeking dominant partner
The Question My question for this topic is do you think one should start with the dominant woman and create a relationship or find a woman that one connects with and groom her to be dominant? simeon My Answer Great question, simeon. This is a subject that comes up...
by Violet | Oct 11, 2013 | lift and carry fetish
The Letter I have a weird fetish. How do I tell my wife about my Lift and Carry fetish? When we first met we used to give each other piggybacks. After we married it stopped. I messed up by not telling her prior to our marriage. I asked for a piggyback last month...
by Violet | May 23, 2013 | bdsm and spirituality
The Letter Dear Miss Violet, Do you feel it is possible to be involved in a BDSM relationship that is both sexual and spiritual? To me, sex feels very spiritual. Your submissively, sweet pet My Answer Thank you for writing. Merging sex and spirituality is a topic I...
by Violet | Feb 4, 2013 | sharing your fetish
The Letter Hello Mistress. I have a little question. How risky is it to tell my girlfriend about my fetish? I love my girlfriend and I would like to stay with her, but I think that she doesn’t like such fetishes (CBT and foot fetish). I don’t want...
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