by Violet | Dec 5, 2016 | fetish advice
A Place to Ask Questions I began this blog five years ago to give you a place to ask your fetish & BDSM questions, and get informed, discreet answers. You responded with a flurry of emails asking about all sorts of kinky topics. It has been a lot of fun...
by Violet | Oct 6, 2012 | cock control, fetish advice, kinky advice, ruined orgasm
The Letter It has been about six weeks since I had a real orgasm. But two recent experiences led me to a question for you. Last week I was giving my wife oral (which I love to do of course!) and as she reached her climax I realized that I was throbbing and...
by Violet | Jun 14, 2012 | chastity, edging, kinky advice, kinky games
The Letter The last time I masturbated was 6 months ago. I remember it was possible to do it pretty quick. So it makes logical sense that the best thing to do for fun is to edge. But I wonder, is it really possible to edge yourself? toy My Answer Absolutely, edging...
by Violet | Jun 3, 2012 | edging, kinky relationship advice, orgasm denial, tease and denial
The Letter Hello Ms. Violet, So my wife wants to start locking up my penis in chastity. Of course I am thrilled! But, in secret, I also enjoy calling certain LDW Mistresses. I’m worried that, since my cock will be locked up, I won’t be able to perform...
by Violet | Mar 27, 2012 | body worship, fetish advice, kinky advice, kinky relationship advice
The Letter Which came first? No, not the one you are thinking of. I mean sex (kink) or love. Okay, not love. That is the wrong word. But I mean the emotional versus the physical. Do we develop feelings for those we think are hot, or do we think people are hot...
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