Seeking a Dominant Partner

The Question My question for this topic is do you think one should start with the dominant woman and create a relationship or find a woman that one connects with and groom her to be dominant? simeon My Answer Great question, simeon.  This is a subject that comes up...

Merging Sex and Spirituality

The Letter Dear Miss Violet, Do you feel it is possible to be involved in a BDSM relationship that is both sexual and spiritual?  To me, sex feels very spiritual. Your submissively, sweet pet My Answer Thank you for writing.  Merging sex and spirituality is a topic I...

Finding a Dominant Partner

The Question Are there any tell-tale signs that indicate that a women you meet in the vanilla world might have sexually dominant tendencies? For example, I have a wonderful yoga teacher who has many vanilla traits I find attractive.  She also likes to push me to do...