Lift and Carry Fetish

The Letter I have a weird fetish.  How do I tell my wife about my Lift and Carry fetish?  When we first met we used to give each other piggybacks.  After we married it stopped.  I messed up by not telling her prior to our marriage.  I asked for a piggyback last month...

Telling Your Secret

The Letter Hello Mistress.   I have a little question.  How risky is it to tell my girlfriend about my fetish?  I love my girlfriend and I would like to stay with her,  but I think that she doesn’t like such fetishes (CBT and foot fetish).   I don’t want...

Achieving Gooning

The Letter Dear Empress Violet, At what point does “edging” and “riding the edge” and even a “hard ridge of the edge” step over the line and become “gooning”?  Could you please address the topic of “gooning”?   I have been known to edge for prolonged periods of time...

Steps For Edging Yourself

The Letter The last time I masturbated was 6 months ago.  I remember it was possible to do it pretty quick.  So it makes logical sense that the best thing to do for fun is to edge.  But I wonder, is it really possible to edge yourself? toy My Answer Absolutely, edging...