by Violet | Dec 5, 2016 | fetish advice
A Place to Ask Questions I began this blog five years ago to give you a place to ask your fetish & BDSM questions, and get informed, discreet answers. You responded with a flurry of emails asking about all sorts of kinky topics. It has been a lot of fun...
by Violet | Oct 26, 2016 | fetish advice
The Question: I would like to know how long is proper to leave a sub in CBT? Now, I know that there are several thoughts of what CBT should stand for. I used to prefer Cock, Bondage & Torture to Cock & Ball Torture. Of course, it actually stands for...
by Violet | Apr 6, 2014 | humiliation
The Question Dear Miss Violet, I have noticed a kind of feeling I get if a woman mentions something or says something that feels emasculating to me. I noticed this first when I was in High School and heard a female mention penis size. She emphasized how important it...
by Violet | Jan 22, 2014 | sissy role play
The Question I am a straight male who enjoys some cross-dressing sissy play, but I do not think I fit the “textbook” definition of sissy, I do not want to be a girly girl who craves cock. I like it when a Mistress dresses me as a sissy and even coerces...
by Violet | Oct 6, 2012 | cock control, fetish advice, kinky advice, ruined orgasm
The Letter It has been about six weeks since I had a real orgasm. But two recent experiences led me to a question for you. Last week I was giving my wife oral (which I love to do of course!) and as she reached her climax I realized that I was throbbing and...
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