Fetish & BDSM Questions

Fetish & BDSM Questions

A Place to Ask Questions I began this blog five years ago to give you a place to ask your fetish & BDSM questions, and get informed, discreet answers.  You responded with a flurry of emails asking about all sorts of kinky topics.  It has been a lot of fun...

Keeping CBT Safe

The Question: I would like to know how long is proper to leave a sub in CBT?  Now, I know that there are several thoughts of what CBT should stand for.  I used to prefer Cock, Bondage & Torture to Cock & Ball Torture.  Of course, it actually stands for...

Humiliation Becomes Erotic

The Question Dear Miss Violet, I have noticed a kind of feeling I get if a woman mentions something or says something that feels emasculating to me. I noticed this first when I was in High School and heard a female mention penis size.  She emphasized how important it...

Preparing Mentally For Sissy Roleplay

The Question I am a straight male who enjoys some cross-dressing sissy play, but I do not think I fit the “textbook” definition of sissy, I do not want to be a girly girl who craves cock. I like it when a Mistress dresses me as a sissy and even coerces...