Humiliation Becomes Erotic

The Question Dear Miss Violet, I have noticed a kind of feeling I get if a woman mentions something or says something that feels emasculating to me. I noticed this first when I was in High School and heard a female mention penis size.  She emphasized how important it...

Controlling Your Fetish

The Question Do you think that a man can control his fetishes for a long time; or maybe that he can change them? Sonar My Answer Hello Sonar.  Thank you for writing to me with your question about controlling your fetish.  This is a topic that comes up during my calls...