Fetish & BDSM Questions

Fetish & BDSM Questions

A Place to Ask Questions I began this blog five years ago to give you a place to ask your fetish & BDSM questions, and get informed, discreet answers.  You responded with a flurry of emails asking about all sorts of kinky topics.  It has been a lot of fun...

Handling Being Sub in Delicate Situations

The Letter Mistress, i was wondering what is acceptable action by a submissive in those areas that someone is not usually supposed to act submissive? Especially in a situation like when a lady is definitely your Domme but she also has a “Dom”. In fact, he...

Merging Sex and Spirituality

The Letter Dear Miss Violet, Do you feel it is possible to be involved in a BDSM relationship that is both sexual and spiritual?  To me, sex feels very spiritual. Your submissively, sweet pet My Answer Thank you for writing.  Merging sex and spirituality is a topic I...