by Violet | Dec 5, 2016 | fetish advice
A Place to Ask Questions I began this blog five years ago to give you a place to ask your fetish & BDSM questions, and get informed, discreet answers. You responded with a flurry of emails asking about all sorts of kinky topics. It has been a lot of fun...
by Violet | Jun 24, 2016 | submissive etiquette
The Letter Mistress, i was wondering what is acceptable action by a submissive in those areas that someone is not usually supposed to act submissive? Especially in a situation like when a lady is definitely your Domme but she also has a “Dom”. In fact, he...
by Violet | May 23, 2013 | bdsm and spirituality
The Letter Dear Miss Violet, Do you feel it is possible to be involved in a BDSM relationship that is both sexual and spiritual? To me, sex feels very spiritual. Your submissively, sweet pet My Answer Thank you for writing. Merging sex and spirituality is a topic I...
by Violet | Oct 6, 2012 | cock control, fetish advice, kinky advice, ruined orgasm
The Letter It has been about six weeks since I had a real orgasm. But two recent experiences led me to a question for you. Last week I was giving my wife oral (which I love to do of course!) and as she reached her climax I realized that I was throbbing and...
by Violet | Jun 3, 2012 | edging, kinky relationship advice, orgasm denial, tease and denial
The Letter Hello Ms. Violet, So my wife wants to start locking up my penis in chastity. Of course I am thrilled! But, in secret, I also enjoy calling certain LDW Mistresses. I’m worried that, since my cock will be locked up, I won’t be able to perform...
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