by Violet | Dec 5, 2016 | fetish advice
A Place to Ask Questions I began this blog five years ago to give you a place to ask your fetish & BDSM questions, and get informed, discreet answers. You responded with a flurry of emails asking about all sorts of kinky topics. It has been a lot of fun...
by Violet | Oct 26, 2016 | fetish advice
The Question: I would like to know how long is proper to leave a sub in CBT? Now, I know that there are several thoughts of what CBT should stand for. I used to prefer Cock, Bondage & Torture to Cock & Ball Torture. Of course, it actually stands for...
by Violet | Sep 13, 2016 | submission
The Question: What is a “doormat” and how do you know if you are one? In books and forums I have seen people write about “true submission” as caring only about what your dominant wants, and putting your own desires aside. I have to admit, I find it appealing to...
by Violet | Jun 24, 2016 | submissive etiquette
The Letter Mistress, i was wondering what is acceptable action by a submissive in those areas that someone is not usually supposed to act submissive? Especially in a situation like when a lady is definitely your Domme but she also has a “Dom”. In fact, he...
by Violet | May 28, 2016 | seeking dominant partner
The Question My question for this topic is do you think one should start with the dominant woman and create a relationship or find a woman that one connects with and groom her to be dominant? simeon My Answer Great question, simeon. This is a subject that comes up...
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