Lift and Carry Fetish

The Letter I have a weird fetish.  How do I tell my wife about my Lift and Carry fetish?  When we first met we used to give each other piggybacks.  After we married it stopped.  I messed up by not telling her prior to our marriage.  I asked for a piggyback last month...

Controlling Your Fetish

The Question Do you think that a man can control his fetishes for a long time; or maybe that he can change them? Sonar My Answer Hello Sonar.  Thank you for writing to me with your question about controlling your fetish.  This is a topic that comes up during my calls...

Merging Sex and Spirituality

The Letter Dear Miss Violet, Do you feel it is possible to be involved in a BDSM relationship that is both sexual and spiritual?  To me, sex feels very spiritual. Your submissively, sweet pet My Answer Thank you for writing.  Merging sex and spirituality is a topic I...

Telling Your Secret

The Letter Hello Mistress.   I have a little question.  How risky is it to tell my girlfriend about my fetish?  I love my girlfriend and I would like to stay with her,  but I think that she doesn't like such fetishes (CBT and foot fetish).   I don't want to ruin my...

Achieving Gooning

The Letter Dear Empress Violet, At what point does “edging” and “riding the edge” and even a “hard ridge of the edge” step over the line and become “gooning”?  Could you please address the topic of “gooning”?   I have been known to edge for prolonged periods of time...

Long Term Chastity Reality

The Letter Dear Miss Violet, I have been considering going into long term chastity.  What is it like?  Will I have a difficult time with it?  Do you ever let your chastity submissives have a release? Longing to be Locked My Answer This is a topic I have written about...

Steps For Edging Yourself

The Letter The last time I masturbated was 6 months ago.  I remember it was possible to do it pretty quick.  So it makes logical sense that the best thing to do for fun is to edge.  But I wonder, is it really possible to edge yourself? toy My Answer Absolutely, edging...

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