Lift and Carry Fetish
The Letter I have a weird fetish. How do I tell my wife about my Lift and Carry fetish? When we first met we used to give each other piggybacks. After we married it stopped. I messed up by not telling her prior to our marriage. I asked for a piggyback last month...
Controlling Your Fetish
The Question Do you think that a man can control his fetishes for a long time; or maybe that he can change them? Sonar My Answer Hello Sonar. Thank you for writing to me with your question about controlling your fetish. This is a topic that comes up during my calls...
Merging Sex and Spirituality
The Letter Dear Miss Violet, Do you feel it is possible to be involved in a BDSM relationship that is both sexual and spiritual? To me, sex feels very spiritual. Your submissively, sweet pet My Answer Thank you for writing. Merging sex and spirituality is a topic I...
Telling Your Secret
The Letter Hello Mistress. I have a little question. How risky is it to tell my girlfriend about my fetish? I love my girlfriend and I would like to stay with her, but I think that she doesn't like such fetishes (CBT and foot fetish). I don't want to ruin my...
Achieving Gooning
The Letter Dear Empress Violet, At what point does “edging” and “riding the edge” and even a “hard ridge of the edge” step over the line and become “gooning”? Could you please address the topic of “gooning”? I have been known to edge for prolonged periods of time...
Long Term Chastity Reality
The Letter Dear Miss Violet, I have been considering going into long term chastity. What is it like? Will I have a difficult time with it? Do you ever let your chastity submissives have a release? Longing to be Locked My Answer This is a topic I have written about...
Exploring Ruined Orgasms
The Letter It has been about six weeks since I had a real orgasm. But two recent experiences led me to a question for you. Last week I was giving my wife oral (which I love to do of course!) and as she reached her climax I realized that I was throbbing and...
Steps For Edging Yourself
The Letter The last time I masturbated was 6 months ago. I remember it was possible to do it pretty quick. So it makes logical sense that the best thing to do for fun is to edge. But I wonder, is it really possible to edge yourself? toy My Answer Absolutely, edging...
Letting Your Wife Lock You Up
The Letter Hello Ms. Violet, So my wife wants to start locking up my penis in chastity. Of course I am thrilled! But, in secret, I also enjoy calling certain LDW Mistresses. I'm worried that, since my cock will be locked up, I won't be able to perform like I...
The Secret to Attraction
The Letter Which came first? No, not the one you are thinking of. I mean sex (kink) or love. Okay, not love. That is the wrong word. But I mean the emotional versus the physical. Do we develop feelings for those we think are hot, or do we think people are hot...
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