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The Letter
Dear Empress Violet,
At what point does “edging” and “riding the edge” and even a “hard ridge of the edge” step over the line and become “gooning”? Could you please address the topic of “gooning”? I have been known to edge for prolonged periods of time and wonder–or perhaps aspire to be–a true blue goon.
Sincerely,
SDM
My Answer
I am really glad that SDM wrote in, asking about this topic. It is one that does not come up often. I expect that you may be wondering what in the world “gooning” is. So let’s start there, and then I will discuss the differences between edging, riding the edge, and gooning. Most importantly, you will learn about achieving gooning.
Definition of Gooning
This is the state achieved after a prolonged session of edging. It can be described as a meditative state where a man’s mind merges with his cock. In this state, the male can become freed of all codes of social conduct. Only his arousal dictates his reactions. As a result, a gooned out man can become very expressive and demonstrative. He may become very vocal, while his body and face might take on undignified expressions and poses. Hence the term “goon”.
The Differences
Edging is simply getting to the edge of an orgasm, then backing off the edge. Riding the edge is staying on that edge of release. Not allowing yourself to go over and not backing off the edge either. Both of these are actions.
So I would describe “gooning” as the state of mind a man can enter after extreme edging, or extreme masturbation. What I mean by that is edging many times in a row, or masturbating over and over again. This is, again, a state of mind.
How to Get There
You can reach the gooning state on your own, but it will likely take a good deal of stroking and/or edging to reach it. Be prepared by having a few hours of private time, a lot of lube, lots of water to stay hydrated, and keep at it.
Your other option is to call me, or the Mistress of your choice, and request a gooning session. You will need to allot at LEAST an hour. Leave the call open as you would be most unhappy to have your call cut off just as you began to enter the gooning state. These things cannot be rushed.
Curious to Know
Have you ever experienced the gooning meditative state? What was achieving gooning like for you? How did you achieve it?
Remember…I am here to answer all of your kink questions. Just email me with your own question. I will respond here in this blog. violet@enchantrixempire.com
Happy New Year Violet! How is our wonderful Kink advisor today?
It is very interesting to read there is a term for this state. I believe you and I have achieved this together many times.
As we get deep into sessions of edging I do feel a separation from my normal reserved state and only my cock and arousal is what I feel. My body does shake and ‘dance’ as you have told me before. Since I cant see my face, I dont know about the goon expressions (laughing) Do I?
It does help explain why I absolutely love our extreme edging sessions. (big smile) The state is true animalistic pleasure for me thanks to you guiding the action.
Thanks for answering the letter and now I know a name for something I have come to experience through our special kinky relationship.
I am fabulous Galaxy. Another beautiful day in Vegas. I am loving the crisp, cold weather here. On to the topic of gooning. I know! As soon as I looked into this term, I realized that you and I had reached that point many times. Technically, I drove you to that point. *grin* You do get some interesting expressions on your face when you do that dance Galaxy. But, as I told you last night, in no way am I calling you a goon . *smile* Mmmm…animalistic pleasure. I adore the sound of that. Yes! I never knew there was a name for that state either. Other than “The Violet Zone”. *wink*
i’m confident i’ve been close to gooning on many occasions. i am not sure i have actually been there. Maybe i should ask You, Miss Violet…in Your opionion, while in the Violet Zone, have i ever been in a goon state?
My little luke is going to be a gooner!!! I like it! You do know that my mission is now to get you into the gooning state. Oh yes! It is difficult to know as I have never seen you on cam. I need to see the body movements and facial expressions to recognize that someone is gooning. I would love to see you perform for me. *grin*
i don’t know if i’ve been a gooner yet, but i may have been a goober!
Dear Empress Violet, will you train a sissy that wants to feel everything like a woman? I wear panties always, douche and use panty liners one week, each month. I have always been a sissy with a very tiny clit. I would take the panties out of the hamper and smell them and wear them when I was younger. I loved the way they smelled and felt. Can you help me be all the woman I can be?
Hello Jeanna. I adore training sissies. So yes…come on down. What caused you to respond on this particular posting sweetie?
Hi my Mistress/goddess: it wasn’t this particular post but the general tone of your post and knowledge. I want to be trained in the art of femininity. As I said, I would go in the hamper and smell my moms panties, put them on and play with my clit. I know she knew this as she would make me do certain things to enforce my girly desires. She even told a few of her friends about my actions. I was there when she told them what I did. I was wondering if you can teach me more and take me further down the road?
Hello again Jeanna. So glad you found me. From what you have told me of your desires, you are going to love one of my other blogs: http://www.ilovepantyboys.com
I hope to see you over there. And even more…I would love to talk with you about all of this in session. We would have so much fun!
Well I actually did once through a webtease on (website deleted) called “Goon!” and I found the sensation rather enjoyable. I’m normally chaste, however my Goddess has me free to do as I will for the time being and so I’m experimenting with a variety of things before lockup again. I was going at it for about an hour when I accidentally went over the edge and so to punish myself, I rolled a die and decided that was how many days I had to go before I try gooning again. It turned up a 3…
You are very experimental Donnie. I like that! How fun that you gave yourself a challenge and even punished yourself. Now Donnie…you need to know that I am happy to do both of those things for you. *grin* What a gooning guy!! Woohoo!
Dear mistress Violet,i think so maybe I have achieved that status state.i do not know for sure.
is it a little bit like subspace.sincerly yours sissy slave ted
Hello sissy slave ted. Gooning is actually an extreme state of subspace. It requires very intense stimulation and edging. A minimum of 90 minutes, in my experience. It is possible that you have achieved that. Let me know if you believe you have, and if so, how you got there. Some men (and sissies) have never achieved that are are really curious about the experiences of others.
I was just experiencing this last night after out call. I had been edging allll day. I mean, for a good 7 hours and collecting precum and I started to slouch really bad, and even space out a little. I started getting kinda loopy and singing about things in my house. it was odd and fun at the same time. I had not idea it was a real thing until I saw this. I swear you read my mind Violet. Your are my Cum Queen after all.
Hello brandon. You had doubts?? As if. So…the little cum craver reached the gooning stage. I want to hear that in session. You have to know that.