The Question
This sweet reader wants to know how to become a real life sissy maid. Having helped a good number of my callers successfully find a lady to serve as a sissy maid, I can help!
Hi Miss Violet.
How do i become a sissy maid and serve a lady?
sissy
My Answer
The good news is that just about any sissy maid can find a Mistress to serve. I use the term “Mistress” to include naturally dominant women who may have no knowledge of the Lifestyle.
If you just keep living your life, hoping to be approached by a Mistress, odds are not in your favor. You need to step out of your comfort zone and take some action. Get yourself out there. Let the ladies know that you desire to be of service.
Miss Violet – Sissy Maid Trainer 800-601-6975
Advertising
A good place to begin is on Craigslist or a similar website. Create a listing under the category “Services”, “Household”. Make it straightforward. Something like, “Man wishes to perform housework, yard work and other chores for a woman. No payment expected.” Have them contact you through the service.
Put your fears and worries aside. Yes, you will likely get some less than wonderful responses. People are not used to getting something for nothing. They will think it’s some sort of scam. Be prepared to convince them that you are for real.
Your Best Shot
Stay away from BDSM speak, such as “submissive” and “Dominant”. If a woman responds and makes it clear that she is in the lifestyle, you can use those terms. Otherwise keep it straightforward and short.
When a woman is interested in having you do work for her, meet her in a public place first. Buy her coffee or make a better impression and buy her a nice lunch. Show her that you know how to behave; that you are respectful, and will not embarrass her in front of her neighbors.
How to Keep Your Sissy Maid Position
- Show up when you are expected
- Follow Mistress’ orders
- Do your very best always
- Be respectful
- Do not try to turn this into a sexual relationship unless she suggests it
- Leave when your work is done
Feel free to call me so we can discuss your search for a sissy maid position. I can coach you through getting a casual position, or finding a live in Mistress position for a long term submissive situation.
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How can a beta bottom bitch desire to become a “MISTRESS”? I am confused. Was that a typo induced by excitement? *wink*
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Love housekeeping. Feel so much pride doing my chores while dressed in a proper uniform. Currently not serving but would love to in the San Antonio area. Can look very feminine. Such honor being ordered around and performing as a female servant.
Hello Janae. Back when Craigslist allowed such things, it was a wonderful way for sissy maids to find a real life woman to serve. Have you looked for someone in your area?
Hello Violet, no I have not searched my area. Have posted a few online comments. Not sure where to post myself. Still hoping to one day be serving in a maid uniform.
Hello Janae. If you are okay with serving a woman who is dominant but not necessarily a Mistress, you could post anywhere in your area in classifieds. Lady’s maid looking for a woman to serve.
First of all, Ms. Violet, welcome back!!! I can’t tell you how many calls I had with tearful pets of yours who were looking in vain for a Mistress who could make them feel as special as you did. Secondly, this is excellent advice for a sissy maid. Sometimes, because sissies are excited to serve a Mistress, they assume Mistress is excited too. Best to wait for Mistress to suggest getting sexy–or you may find yourself dismissed from service!
Ms Piper! I was hoping to hear from you. Thank you! Sorry to hear my pets were tearful, but glad they came to you and did not just cry alone. With any luck, you and I will find ourselves on at the same time and then…in a two Mistress call!
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