Increasing the Size of Testicles
The Question My question is, is there a way to increase the size of testicles? I am a 27-year-old from India. My balls are extremely small for my age. They are of the size of small oval grapes but flatter. Each testicle is smaller than about 1/4th or even 1/5th of the...
Fetish & BDSM Questions
A Place to Ask Questions I began this blog five years ago to give you a place to ask your fetish & BDSM questions, and get informed, discreet answers. You responded with a flurry of emails asking about all sorts of kinky topics. It has been a lot of fun...
Keeping CBT Safe
The Question: I would like to know how long is proper to leave a sub in CBT? Now, I know that there are several thoughts of what CBT should stand for. I used to prefer Cock, Bondage & Torture to Cock & Ball Torture. Of course, it actually stands for...
Avoid Being a Doormat
The Question: What is a “doormat” and how do you know if you are one? In books and forums I have seen people write about “true submission” as caring only about what your dominant wants, and putting your own desires aside. I have to admit, I find it appealing to...
Handling Being Sub in Delicate Situations
The Letter Mistress, i was wondering what is acceptable action by a submissive in those areas that someone is not usually supposed to act submissive? Especially in a situation like when a lady is definitely your Domme but she also has a "Dom". In fact, he is her...
Seeking a Dominant Partner
The Question My question for this topic is do you think one should start with the dominant woman and create a relationship or find a woman that one connects with and groom her to be dominant? simeon My Answer Great question, simeon. This is a subject that comes up...
Humiliation Becomes Erotic
The Question Dear Miss Violet, I have noticed a kind of feeling I get if a woman mentions something or says something that feels emasculating to me. I noticed this first when I was in High School and heard a female mention penis size. She emphasized how important it...
Preparing Mentally For Sissy Roleplay
The Question I am a straight male who enjoys some cross-dressing sissy play, but I do not think I fit the "textbook" definition of sissy, I do not want to be a girly girl who craves cock. I like it when a Mistress dresses me as a sissy and even coerces cock-sucking,...
Lift and Carry Fetish
The Letter I have a weird fetish. How do I tell my wife about my Lift and Carry fetish? When we first met we used to give each other piggybacks. After we married it stopped. I messed up by not telling her prior to our marriage. I asked for a piggyback last month...
Controlling Your Fetish
The Question Do you think that a man can control his fetishes for a long time; or maybe that he can change them? Sonar My Answer Hello Sonar. Thank you for writing to me with your question about controlling your fetish. This is a topic that comes up during my calls...
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