Increasing the Size of Testicles

The Question My question is, is there a way to increase the size of testicles? I am a 27-year-old from India. My balls are extremely small for my age. They are of the size of small oval grapes but flatter. Each testicle is smaller than about 1/4th or even 1/5th of the...

Fetish & BDSM Questions

A Place to Ask Questions I began this blog five years ago to give you a place to ask your fetish & BDSM questions, and get informed, discreet answers.  You responded with a flurry of emails asking about all sorts of kinky topics.  It has been a lot of fun...

Keeping CBT Safe

The Question: I would like to know how long is proper to leave a sub in CBT?  Now, I know that there are several thoughts of what CBT should stand for.  I used to prefer Cock, Bondage & Torture to Cock & Ball Torture.  Of course, it actually stands for...

Avoid Being a Doormat

The Question:  What is a “doormat” and how do you know if you are one? In books and forums I have seen people write about “true submission” as caring only about what your dominant wants, and putting your own desires aside.  I have to admit, I find it appealing to...

Handling Being Sub in Delicate Situations

The Letter Mistress, i was wondering what is acceptable action by a submissive in those areas that someone is not usually supposed to act submissive? Especially in a situation like when a lady is definitely your Domme but she also has a "Dom". In fact, he is her...

Seeking a Dominant Partner

The Question My question for this topic is do you think one should start with the dominant woman and create a relationship or find a woman that one connects with and groom her to be dominant? simeon My Answer Great question, simeon.  This is a subject that comes up...

Humiliation Becomes Erotic

The Question Dear Miss Violet, I have noticed a kind of feeling I get if a woman mentions something or says something that feels emasculating to me. I noticed this first when I was in High School and heard a female mention penis size.  She emphasized how important it...

Preparing Mentally For Sissy Roleplay

The Question I am a straight male who enjoys some cross-dressing sissy play, but I do not think I fit the "textbook" definition of sissy, I do not want to be a girly girl who craves cock. I like it when a Mistress dresses me as a sissy and even coerces cock-sucking,...

Lift and Carry Fetish

The Letter I have a weird fetish.  How do I tell my wife about my Lift and Carry fetish?  When we first met we used to give each other piggybacks.  After we married it stopped.  I messed up by not telling her prior to our marriage.  I asked for a piggyback last month...

Controlling Your Fetish

The Question Do you think that a man can control his fetishes for a long time; or maybe that he can change them? Sonar My Answer Hello Sonar.  Thank you for writing to me with your question about controlling your fetish.  This is a topic that comes up during my calls...

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