The Secret to Attraction

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The Letter

Which came first?  No, not the one you are thinking of.  I mean sex (kink) or love.  Okay, not love.  That is the wrong word.  But I mean the emotional versus the physical.  Do we develop feelings for those we think are hot, or do we think people . . . → Read More: The Secret to Attraction


 

Identifying a Panty Boy

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The Question Wearing Women’s panties is something i find very arousing both on my own and as part of a D/s experience with a Woman.   Just thinking about it gets my heart beating a little faster.  Wearing them sends warm sensations up and down my body.  Wearing them for a . . . → Read More: Identifying a Panty Boy


 

Feeling Feminine More Often

The Letter

When I am in session with my Mistress, I feel very feminine.  Also, when I am crossdressed, I feel like a woman.  But I can’t be in session or in female clothing all of the time.  What can I do to feel more feminine on a day-to-day basis?  Especially interested in very . . . → Read More: Feeling Feminine More Often


 

Attending Your First Munch

A Casual Event

The Letter

My first lifestyle club munch is finally scheduled.  I have no idea what to expect.  What do I do?  How do I act?  Do I just sit submissively in the corner?   Do I venture out and talk to people?  I want to find some one to share my . . . → Read More: Attending Your First Munch


 

Finding Happiness as a Cuck

The Letter

I am a totally straight male.  I love wearing high heels, nylon stockings, and other feminine clothing.  I live in a house with four girls.  None of them know that I consider myself to be the fifth girl in the house.  One of the girls did  catch me crossdressing  one day.  . . . → Read More: Finding Happiness as a Cuck


 

Recommending Panties for Men

The Letter

Is there a particular style of panties that you recommend for sissies?  I have noticed, for example, that while a thong might be very sexy on a woman, it does not work that well for me whether I am tucking or not.

Yours,

Desperately Seeking Panties

My Answer

Since this blog . . . → Read More: Recommending Panties for Men


 

Tucking With Style

 

Looking Smooth!

The Letter

Do you have any thoughts on how to “tuck” properly?  Is there a good method for achieving a nice “feminine” look down there?

Sincerely,

Poking Out in the Midwest

What Tucking Means

If you are a sissy, or a cross dresser, perhaps even a panty boy…you . . . → Read More: Tucking With Style


 

Topping From the Bottom

Ms Violet Tells It Like It Is

The Question I have often heard about “topping from the bottom”.  Even been accused of it.  But we are told to be good communicators.  I think this creates a blurry, gray area.  Also, one of the things I have been told is a positive . . . → Read More: Topping From the Bottom


 

Milking a Chastity Slave’s Prostate

Ask Ms Violet

 

Dear Ms Violet

As a fan of long term chastity, do you think milking the prostate is absolutely necessary?  If so, how often do you recommend?  Is there a particular method or tool that you would recommend?

Thanks,

Curious in the Empire

First Things First

For many years in . . . → Read More: Milking a Chastity Slave’s Prostate


 

Answering Your Kinky Questions

You have questions…I have answers

Where to Turn

So many people have questions about a fetish, or a kink, or something sexual in general.  Only they do not know who to ask.  I am going to make this easy for you.  Come to me!  Bondage, sissies, body worship…whatever!

Ask Me Anything

Before . . . → Read More: Answering Your Kinky Questions