The Secret to Attraction

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The Letter

Which came first?  No, not the one you are thinking of.  I mean sex (kink) or love.  Okay, not love.  That is the wrong word.  But I mean the emotional versus the physical.  Do we develop feelings for those we think are hot, or do we think people . . . → Read More: The Secret to Attraction


 

Finding a Dominant Partner

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The Question

Are there any tell-tale signs that indicate that a women you meet in the vanilla world might have sexually dominant tendencies?

For example, I have a wonderful yoga teacher who has many vanilla traits I find attractive.  She also likes to push me to do things that are . . . → Read More: Finding a Dominant Partner


 

Identifying a Panty Boy

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The Question Wearing Women’s panties is something i find very arousing both on my own and as part of a D/s experience with a Woman.   Just thinking about it gets my heart beating a little faster.  Wearing them sends warm sensations up and down my body.  Wearing them for a . . . → Read More: Identifying a Panty Boy


 

Feeling Feminine More Often

The Letter

When I am in session with my Mistress, I feel very feminine.  Also, when I am crossdressed, I feel like a woman.  But I can’t be in session or in female clothing all of the time.  What can I do to feel more feminine on a day-to-day basis?  Especially interested in very . . . → Read More: Feeling Feminine More Often


 

Attending Your First Munch

A Casual Event

The Letter

My first lifestyle club munch is finally scheduled.  I have no idea what to expect.  What do I do?  How do I act?  Do I just sit submissively in the corner?   Do I venture out and talk to people?  I want to find some one to share my . . . → Read More: Attending Your First Munch


 

Finding Happiness as a Cuck

The Letter

I am a totally straight male.  I love wearing high heels, nylon stockings, and other feminine clothing.  I live in a house with four girls.  None of them know that I consider myself to be the fifth girl in the house.  One of the girls did  catch me crossdressing  one day.  . . . → Read More: Finding Happiness as a Cuck


 

Recommending Panties for Men

The Letter

Is there a particular style of panties that you recommend for sissies?  I have noticed, for example, that while a thong might be very sexy on a woman, it does not work that well for me whether I am tucking or not.

Yours,

Desperately Seeking Panties

My Answer

Since this blog . . . → Read More: Recommending Panties for Men


 

Tucking With Style

 

Looking Smooth!

The Letter

Do you have any thoughts on how to “tuck” properly?  Is there a good method for achieving a nice “feminine” look down there?

Sincerely,

Poking Out in the Midwest

What Tucking Means

If you are a sissy, or a cross dresser, perhaps even a panty boy…you . . . → Read More: Tucking With Style


 

Finding a Safe Dick to Suck

Safety First Question

How about…. finding dick!  How can you find dick that is safe to suck (clean)?  ‘Specially if you are into the perfect stranger fantasy.

HG

My Answer

This letter had me chuckling a little bit.   Your safest bet is to take yoga classes and work toward sucking your own cock.  . . . → Read More: Finding a Safe Dick to Suck


 

Sucking Your Own Cock

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Question

I’m a male from Canada and I just want to know if  I’m normal with the fact that I would love to suck my own cock?  But also cum in my mouth.  I know that I’m not gay!   I love women, but I would be excited about the fact . . . → Read More: Sucking Your Own Cock