Finding a Dominant Partner

Ms Violet 800-601-6975

The Question

Are there any tell-tale signs that indicate that a women you meet in the vanilla world might have sexually dominant tendencies?

For example, I have a wonderful yoga teacher who has many vanilla traits I find attractive.  She also likes to push me to do things that are . . . → Read More: Finding a Dominant Partner


 

Attending Your First Munch

A Casual Event

The Letter

My first lifestyle club munch is finally scheduled.  I have no idea what to expect.  What do I do?  How do I act?  Do I just sit submissively in the corner?   Do I venture out and talk to people?  I want to find some one to share my . . . → Read More: Attending Your First Munch


 

Recommending Panties for Men

The Letter

Is there a particular style of panties that you recommend for sissies?  I have noticed, for example, that while a thong might be very sexy on a woman, it does not work that well for me whether I am tucking or not.

Yours,

Desperately Seeking Panties

My Answer

Since this blog . . . → Read More: Recommending Panties for Men


 

Tucking With Style

 

Looking Smooth!

The Letter

Do you have any thoughts on how to “tuck” properly?  Is there a good method for achieving a nice “feminine” look down there?

Sincerely,

Poking Out in the Midwest

What Tucking Means

If you are a sissy, or a cross dresser, perhaps even a panty boy…you . . . → Read More: Tucking With Style


 

Finding a Safe Dick to Suck

Safety First Question

How about…. finding dick!  How can you find dick that is safe to suck (clean)?  ‘Specially if you are into the perfect stranger fantasy.

HG

My Answer

This letter had me chuckling a little bit.   Your safest bet is to take yoga classes and work toward sucking your own cock.  . . . → Read More: Finding a Safe Dick to Suck


 

Topping From the Bottom

Ms Violet Tells It Like It Is

The Question I have often heard about “topping from the bottom”.  Even been accused of it.  But we are told to be good communicators.  I think this creates a blurry, gray area.  Also, one of the things I have been told is a positive . . . → Read More: Topping From the Bottom


 

Best Chastity Device

Your Kink Advisor- Ms Violet

The Letter

What kind of chastity device do you recommend?

Do you think a device is more  effective or just “mental” chastity as it were, denying orgasm it the Mistress’s orders but not locking the penis away?

Yours,

little chris

My Answer

The right chastity device depends on . . . → Read More: Best Chastity Device


 

Sucking Your Own Cock

Ask Ms Violet

Question

I’m a male from Canada and I just want to know if  I’m normal with the fact that I would love to suck my own cock?  But also cum in my mouth.  I know that I’m not gay!   I love women, but I would be excited about the fact . . . → Read More: Sucking Your Own Cock


 

Milking a Chastity Slave’s Prostate

Ask Ms Violet

 

Dear Ms Violet

As a fan of long term chastity, do you think milking the prostate is absolutely necessary?  If so, how often do you recommend?  Is there a particular method or tool that you would recommend?

Thanks,

Curious in the Empire

First Things First

For many years in . . . → Read More: Milking a Chastity Slave’s Prostate


 

Answering Your Kinky Questions

You have questions…I have answers

Where to Turn

So many people have questions about a fetish, or a kink, or something sexual in general.  Only they do not know who to ask.  I am going to make this easy for you.  Come to me!  Bondage, sissies, body worship…whatever!

Ask Me Anything

Before . . . → Read More: Answering Your Kinky Questions