Before embarking on this career, my experience with forced feminization primarily revolved around submissives who wanted to prove their mettle. The question, “How badly do you want to be my bitch?” was usually answered with, “I’ll do anything!” Of course, that’s a dangerous response to someone like me. “Anything?” I’d respond. Being a safe, sane and consensual guy, I usually had a respectful idea of the limitations inherent in their “anything” response. Subs say that in an effort to please the Dom – and to enforce the fantasy idea of themselves — but they rarely mean it. Hell, they’re often not aware of the numerous freaky things “anything” could involve.
However, one of the surefire ways of having subs prove their obedience is to feminize them. Again, I have a good idea of how far each is willing, or able, to go. And half the fun is pushing their boundaries. So, slap a pair of panties on them and most are happy little subbies. Sometimes the panties are enough. With others, though, some make-up, more lingerie or a sexy outfit is in order. Through this process I’ve even helped a few these subs discover that they were actually sissies or cross-dressers. It’s always satisfying to help someone discover his true nature.
Much to my delight, some of my calls have taken things further. Often the forced fem scene involves humiliation. Of course, that was always part of the plan with what I describe above. But these callers usually fantasize about something more overt; often some sort of public humiliation or a scene in front of friends or family. (For my money, the latter is much more embarrassing than the former.) And a lot of the callers are interested in the full transformation: to be forced into feminization full time; to be made to become a woman. That’s fucking hot.
As with similar scenes, the catch here is that you’re not really forcing anyone at all. It’s clearly their choice to be “forced,” just as it’s the choice of a sub to submit. I’m giving them exactly what they want. And that’s always a turn on for me. The fact that it’s dressed up (pun intended) in an elaborate ruse just makes it that much more fun. It marries role play to feminization in a way that’s very stimulating. If you’re looking for someone to “guide” or “force” you into feminization, I’m your man.




Sir Mat, I just love reading your blogs, am learing so much more about you…now don’t ya wish everyone would read? Than you again for participating in the auction..news has it you may be involved in a 30 min session? any truth??
The whole ‘forced’ aspect plays into the humiliation/power exchange angle. For me the really big thrill is someone else having all kinds of power over me, to remake and transform me for theie pleasure and amusement. That’s what’s so hot about being a toy for a dom(me) to play with.
Good to see you here, Andy. I’m happy to hear your analytical thoughts.
Forced, hell you are so sexy that I would be your transformed girl for ever.
The ladies at sissyschool have helped me to realize that this is my lot. I love it. And thank you Mathew, i look forward to talking to you.
Danielle.
Mmmm, Danielle. Thanks for your comment. I hope we get to talk soon.